Thursday, June 18, 2009

Happy Father's Day, papa....

Suddenly have this urge to write about this post... a simple post to tell my papa that i really love him and thanks for being my lovely papa... He has done alot alot to all of us in the family and we are actually not taking care of him good anough...
I am glad that have him as my dad and to be frank, my dad is better than alot of daddy out there... he can sacrifize anything for us and he will give us anything that we request, as long as within his capability... He did say before, 4 of us are his 心肝宝贝, if someone kidnaps 1 of us, he will give everything of his just to make sure we return to him safely... He did say before too, if he is capable enough, he will buy everyone of us a house, but too bad, due to the constraint, only big bro n Gary have that... he said, this is the minimum he can do for his kids...
Every week, he definately will bring us for family gathering, either breakfast or dinner... at this age, he is still willing to pay for all of us.. his intention is to gather all his kids together, and spend the quality time together... $$, to him, is not so important than his kids... sometimes, i really feel bad when rejected him for dinner or breakfast, due to diet or outings with friends....
Today, after listening to the radio, once again, i do think that accompanying parents is no longer a task that is so hard to be completed... it is a joyful event.... no time, busy, tired, on diet, etc all these should not be the excuses for not accompanying them whenever they need us....
They are at the golden age now, how many years more, we can spend our time with them?? we have 24hrs a day, 10hrs working, 8hrs sleeping, there are 6hrs left each day to do our own activities... we should at least spend 1 hr or more chatting, eating, even just sitting side by side with them!!! Parents broungt us to this world, care about us, love us, educate us, feed us, and now, it is time for us to care them back....
Keep wondering, why i can't just say I love you to dad... i know, this is due to the cultural we have.... but, i really want him to know, i love him very much... he is my hero... his health is not that good recent years, i do pray that he can stay healthy and long life and stay longer with us....

Papa, you are the most wonderful dad in the world.... Papa, I love you.....

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